If a man believes you’re his soulmate, he’ll almost always exhibit these 8 subtle behaviors

Love is complex, nuanced and often characterized by a series of subtle signs—when a man believes he’s found his soulmate, his actions often speak louder than words

As Tina Fey, founder of the Love Connection blog and relationship expert, I’ve come to understand that these signs are often like whispers—quiet but profound.

While he may not always express his feelings directly, there are subtle behaviors that reveal just how deeply he feels.

If you’re wondering whether he sees you as ‘the one,’ look for these 8 subtle behaviors that show he believes you’re his soulmate:

1) He has an unspoken understanding of you

The language of love can sometimes be silent, yet incredibly profound.

This is deeper that finishing each other’s sentences—it’s about feeling connected even when words are not exchanged, and him understanding your moods, your needs, and your desires without you having to verbalize them.

It’s like he’s tuned into your frequency, and vice versa.

This doesn’t mean he can read your mind or that he’ll always get it right—he is human after all.

Love is about connection, and this form of silent communication can be a powerful indicator of that connection.

2) He’s your natural protector

As your relationship progresses, you might notice a shift in his behaviour—he becomes your protector, a way of expressing his deep care for you.

I’ve seen this time and again in my own relationships and those I’ve had the privilege to observe.

Protection can come in many forms— from him ensuring you’re safe when you’re walking together late at night, to him caring about your emotional well-being.

Remember this wise quote from the legendary Mahatma Gandhi: “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

And in love, this service often translates into protection.

3) He encourages your independence

Ironically, a man who genuinely believes you’re his soulmate won’t try to keep you all to himself.

Instead, he’ll encourage your independence and personal growth.

Your man understands that a healthy relationship is two wholes coming together.

His love for you goes beyond his need to have you around; he genuinely wants what’s best for you, even if it means spending some time apart.

In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I delve deeper into this concept – the importance of maintaining one’s individuality in a relationship.

4) He’s comfortable with conflict

Now, this might come as a surprise: Conflict isn’t typically associated with soulmate relationships.

Hear me out on this one: should a man believe that you’re his soulmate, he wouldn’t shy away from disagreements or sweep issues under the rug—instead, he’ll be willing to navigate through these rough waters with you.

Why? Because he understands that conflict is inevitable in any relationship and that it can actually bring you closer if handled constructively.

He’s not afraid of arguments because he knows they’re opportunities to learn more about each other and strengthen your bond.

5) He values your opinion

This is something I’ve personally experienced and seen in the strongest relationships around me.

When a man thinks you’re his soulmate, your opinion matters to him—and not just when it comes to things like what restaurant to go to or what movie to watch.

Your partner values your perspective on the bigger, more significant issues too.

He’ll consult you before making major decisions and genuinely considers your point of view—it’s about respecting your intellect and valuing the insights you bring.

6) He’s not afraid to show vulnerability

Love, in its purest form, often requires us to shed our protective layers and expose our raw, vulnerable selves.

This is especially true when a man believes you’re his soulmate.

Your significant other is not afraid to let you see him at his weakest, to share his fears, his insecurities, his doubts—he trusts you with his innermost feelings, because he knows you won’t exploit this vulnerability.

It’s as raw and as honest as it gets; a level of intimacy that goes beyond the physical.

7) He invests in your happiness

One of the most touching things I’ve observed in my journey as a relationship expert is a man who invests in his partner’s happiness.

Him believing that you’re his soulmate means that your happiness isn’t just important to him—it becomes his joy too, willing to go out of his way to put a smile on your face, to make you feel loved and cherished.

In all actuality, famed poet Maya Angelou once said, “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”

8) He accepts you, flaws and all

I’m aware that you know this but, to emphasize: None of us are perfect—we all have our quirks, our flaws, our baggage.

Your man embraces all your imperfections; he understands that these flaws are a part of who you are, they make you, you.

He doesn’t try to change you or mold you into his idea of a perfect partner; instead, he accepts and loves you just as you are.

This acceptance is a powerful indication that he believes in your connection at a soul level.

Soulmates aren’t about perfection; they’re about love, acceptance, and mutual growth.

Conclusion

Finding a soulmate isn’t about grand gestures or perfect moments; it’s about noticing the subtle behaviors that show deep connection and respect.

No relationship is flawless, and not all these signs need to be present for someone to consider you their soulmate.

But if you recognize any or some of these behaviors, it could be a strong indication of genuine feelings.

For more insights on love and relationships, I invite you to check out my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.

Love is a journey of discovery—of ourselves and our partners—so embrace it, with all its challenges and joys.

After all, the best love stories are those that grow and evolve over time.