It’s easy to be hard on yourself, especially when you can’t see the progress you’re making.
But here’s the thing: success doesn’t always shout—it often whispers. The signs that you’re on the right path and making strides toward your goals can be subtle, and easily overlooked in the hustle of daily life.
I’m Lachlan Brown, founder of Hack Spirit and a mindfulness enthusiast.
Over the years, I’ve dedicated myself to understanding these quiet indicators of progress, and I’m here to share nine key signs that you might be further along than you realize.
So, even if you’re struggling to see it right now, keep reading. You might just discover that you’re on a more successful journey than you ever imagined.
1) You’re not afraid to fail
Let’s face it, failure is a part of life. But it can be a tough pill to swallow.
What sets successful people apart is their willingness to fail. They understand that setbacks are not the end of the world, but rather stepping stones towards success.
You might not see it yet, but if you’re willing to take risks and face potential failure, you’re already on your way to going far in life. It’s a sign of resilience and determination, two key traits of successful individuals.
As psychologist Carol Dweck famously said: “In a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I’m going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here’s a chance to grow.”
2) You’re constantly learning
In my own journey as the founder of Hack Spirit, I’ve come to realize that continuous learning is a crucial part of success.
There was a point when I knew nothing about mindfulness and its impact on mental well-being. But I was curious. I read books, attended seminars, reached out to experts, and even enrolled in a mindfulness certification program.
The more I learned, the more I understood its significance. And today, I am able to share my insights with millions around the world.
If you’re someone who seeks knowledge, who’s always willing to learn something new, you’re showing a sign of someone who’ll go far in life.
3) You’re self-aware and humble
Humility and self-awareness are two traits that often go overlooked, but they’re crucial for personal growth and success.
In my journey, I’ve found that understanding my strengths and weaknesses, acknowledging when I’m wrong, and staying open to feedback have been key to my growth, both personally and professionally.
In fact, I delve deeper into this topic in my book, “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego”. I explore how humility and self-awareness are some of the key principles in Buddhism that can lead to a meaningful and successful life.
If you constantly reflect on your actions and decisions, acknowledge your flaws, and strive to improve, you’re exhibiting signs of a person who’ll go far in life.
4) You have a growth mindset
Psychologists often talk about the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset.
Those with a fixed mindset believe that their abilities and talents are static. They tend to avoid challenges, give up easily, and see effort as fruitless.
On the other hand, individuals with a growth mindset believe that they can develop their abilities through dedication and hard work. They embrace challenges, persist in the face of setbacks, and see effort as the path to mastery.
If you find yourself pushing through obstacles, eager to learn, and open to criticism, it’s a clear sign you have a growth mindset. Research in psychology has consistently shown that people with a growth mindset are more likely to achieve success.
5) You’re comfortable with discomfort
Comfort zones are cozy, but they don’t foster growth or progress. Success often requires stepping into the unfamiliar, the uncomfortable, and sometimes, the downright scary.
If you find yourself willingly taking on challenges that make you uncomfortable, you’re showing a significant sign of someone who’ll go far in life. It’s about embracing discomfort as a necessary part of growth.
In the words of renowned psychologist Susan David, “Discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life.”
6) You value relationships
Success goes beyond personal accomplishments; it also involves the relationships you build along the way.
If you invest time and energy in fostering meaningful relationships, be it personal or professional, it’s a sign that you understand the importance of connection and collaboration in life.
Valuing relationships shows empathy, emotional intelligence, and the ability to work with others – traits that often lead to success in various areas of life.
7) You’re not afraid to ask for help
There was a time when I thought asking for help was a sign of weakness. I believed that to be successful, I needed to do everything on my own. But I couldn’t have been more wrong.
Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength. It shows that you’re aware of your limitations and are willing to learn from others. It’s a recognition that we all need support and guidance, and it’s a willingness to be vulnerable in front of others.
8) You practice gratitude
Gratitude might seem like a soft, fluffy concept, but it’s actually a powerful tool for success. Studies have shown that expressing gratitude can improve mental health, foster resilience, and even boost career success.
If you make it a habit to reflect on the positives in your life and express gratitude for them, you’re building a strong foundation for success. This practice helps maintain a positive outlook, even when times are tough.
Final thoughts: It’s all about perspective
Success is a journey, not a destination. It’s not always about reaching the top, but about growing, learning, and evolving as a person.
The signs you’re showing might be subtle, but they’re significant. They reflect your resilience, dedication, and the inner strength that will propel you far in life, even if you don’t see it yet.
In my book, “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego”, I delve deeper into how these principles can guide you towards a meaningful and successful life. It’s about finding balance and perspective in today’s fast-paced world.
As my grandmother used to say: Life is not short, it’s long and beautiful. It’s a journey to be savored each step of the way.
The signs that you’ll go far in life are there; you just need to recognize them.
So keep forging ahead, learning, growing, and making the most of every moment. Your journey to success is only just beginning.
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